I recently had the opportunity to sit down with actress and entrepreneur Eva Mendes, who opened up about her private life with partner Ryan Gosling in a rare and candid interview.
Mendes, 50, and Gosling, 43, have been together since 2011 and have kept their relationship largely out of the public eye. But in this revealing discussion, Mendes shared just how much her Hollywood heartthrob husband has impacted her sense of self and confidence.
Gosling’s Adoring Gaze
One of the most striking revelations from the interview was Mendes’ admission that Gosling’s adoring gaze makes her feel “really f**king sexy.”
“The way my man looks at me is just… at times I’m like, ‘Oh my God,'” Mendes told The Times. “That might not sit well with people, but so much of how I feel is a reflection of what he’s giving me.”
Despite her successful acting career and stunning looks, Mendes confessed that she has never considered herself “beautiful.” However, Gosling’s unwavering appreciation for her has instilled a deep sense of confidence and sexiness.
“There’s so many things that can make me feel sexy, and I’d say that I feel more sexy than not,” Mendes shared. “I guess it’s because I’ve never considered myself beautiful, but I’ve always felt very sexy.”
Gosling’s impact on her acting
Mendes and Gosling’s relationship has also had a profound impact on her acting career. The couple first met on the set of the 2012 film “The Place Beyond the Pines,” and Mendes credits Gosling with bringing out a side of her that had never been accessible before.
“He gets something out of me that’s never been accessible before,” Mendes said of her partner. “I won’t reveal it to you, but he provides me with the support I need.”
It’s a testament to the deep, supportive bond the two share, with Gosling even serving as Mendes’ unofficial “acting coach” during the filming of Greta Gerwig’s “Barbie” movie.
“I would just simplify everything,” Mendes recalled of the tips she gave Gosling. “I’d remind him, as he’s literally walking out the door, ‘Make Barbie notice you; make Barbie fall in love with you.'”
The Challenges of Parenthood
While Mendes and Gosling’s relationship appears to be a fairytale, the actress was also open about the challenges of parenthood. The couple shares two daughters, Esmeralda, 10, and Amada, 8, and Mendes admitted that balancing her career and motherhood hasn’t always been easy.
In a recent interview on the “Parenting & You” podcast, Mendes became emotional as she discussed her struggles with yelling at her children, something she wishes she could control better.
“I don’t like myself when I yell,” Mendes said. “I don’t want my kids to grow up in fear.” Despite her efforts to practice gentle parenting, she sometimes reverts to her own upbringing, which often involved yelling.
It’s a refreshingly honest look at the difficulties of raising children, even for someone as successful and glamorous as Mendes. Her vulnerability in sharing these struggles is a testament to her commitment to being a loving parent.
A Lasting, Private Love
Mendes and Gosling’s relationship has outlasted many Hollywood unions, with the couple reportedly married since 2016. Despite their fame, they have managed to keep their personal lives largely out of the spotlight, a feat that Mendes attributes to their deep bond and mutual respect.
Mendes said of Gosling’s support, “I’m not going to tell you that, but in all the ways I need support, he’s got me.” “He’s also like my acting coach. He has truly become the best acting coach I have ever had; his assistance is endless.
As Mendes continues to balance her various business ventures and creative pursuits, it’s clear that Gosling remains her constant source of support and inspiration. Their private love story is a reminder that even in the glare of Hollywood, true connection and mutual admiration can thrive.
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